Relationships

My best friend just separated from her boyfriend of over three years. They're still technically boyfriend and girlfriend, but they're taking a break from each other for a while (Two weeks I think she said). I really dont know how they're gonna get through this. Especially since they work together in a tiny little office. They've been together for over three freaking years. I don't think they even KNOW how to live without each other.

I was in class when it actually happened, but my other best friend was there for her, which I'm really glad for. I'm sitting at her house right now, watching the first best friend watch Jersey Shore to cheer herself up (And thats a great show to do it too. It's the kind of show that makes you feel so glad that you're NOT them!) I'm really glad she's laughing and having a good time right now, and I really hope she figures something out soon.


Thinking about them and how many issues they've had within their relationship, It makes me SO glad that I get along so well with my own boyfriend. I've been going out with him for almost three months (and yeah, I KNOW thats almost NOTHING compared to so much) and I've had absolutely NO fights with him (well, I mean we have little arguments about nothing, but thats mostly flirting) In that same period of time, these two have had multiple huge blow-outs where he's told me he's thinking of breaking up with her, and she's seriously afraid that he's gonna get rid of her. I feel SO blessed to have my boy, and I love him SO much, and I love the fact that he loves me too. I feel so happy, but I also feel really bad for my friend because she isn't having nearly as good a life as I am right now...

I love her so much, and I really hope they make it through this, even though I'm thinking they probably wont... I think they've pushed this thing to about as far as it'll go. Unfortunately, I think the only reason they WONT actually break up with each other is the fact that they're both afraid of trying to get through life alone. And that's REALLY not a good reason to stay in a relationship

I hope they figure things out. One way or the other.